When you know you are right…

Last night my wife and I were watching an old episode of Cash Cab that we had recorded on Tivo. We’ve been fans of the show for a long time, so we’ve seen most of the episodes. But, we were happy to find an episode had been recorded that we hadn’t seen yet. Off we go for our virtual ride-along in the Cash Cab…

A group of 3 people get in to the cab. It appears to be a husband/wife team with a friend tagging along. The friend got in first and sat in the back. The wife got in next and sat behind the driver’s seat. The husband gets in last and takes the Hot Seat. This is the seat who must say the official answer to each question. The host, Ben Bailey, does the intro, asks if they want to play, they agree and away they go. First round, easy questions. Ben asks the first easy question. All 3 of the passengers agreed on the simple answer and as the player gave his answer, he nodded his head emphatically several times. Ben confirmed that the answer was correct and they were up $25 bucks. Question 2, another easy one. The team agreed again on the simple answer and as the player gave his answer, he again nodded his head. They, again, got the answer correct.

At this point, I started mimicking his head nodding as we played along from home. We laughed each time it happened.

Several questions went by with the same head nodding occurring as another correct answer was given. But then something interesting happened. A question was asked and instead of the 3 people in the cab immediately agreeing on the correct answer, this time they were unsure. Rather than use a shout-out for help, they decided on an answer. The player in the hot seat give the answer. STRIKE ONE! The answer was incorrect. We backed up Tivo to make sure we just saw what we thought we saw. Sure enough,instead of nodding his head in agreement as he answered, he was shaking his head from side to side. He knew the answer was wrong and gave it anyway.

A few more questions followed and they were all answered correctly with more emphatic nodding to go along. By this time I’m fascinated with how it was playing out. Then, something happened. A question was asked and the players were unsure of the answer. With time running out the player gave an answer that he thought might be correct, but he wasn’t sure. As he gave the answer, his head was still. No head nodding or shaking. This time he simply had no idea if he was right or wrong.

They got the question correct and answered a couple more with head-nodding accuracy until they reached their destination. They risked it all on the double-or-nothing video bonus question and they all nodded along as they gave the answer that they were 100% sure was correct. They exited the cab after winning $1,600.

It makes me wonder what sort of additional information we give off with our body language as we talk to people in our day-to-day lives. I’m sure there are deep-rooted psychological explanations for how this guy was answering the questions and nodding when correct, shaking when incorrect and sitting still when unsure. But, they are all way over my head. But, for me it lead to one of the most interesting rides in the Cash Cab that I’ve seen in quite some time.

Comments

  1. Brad West says:

    John There is nothing else to say, your analytic skills are overwhelming. Studying body language can get quite in depth. Most people if they are the least bit aware can make an assessment accurately.

    Thank you for the post, I am going through the sites that are featured on the beer and blog site to show a little appreciation to the members in Las Vegas. Don't really have time to do this but I am making time to leaving a comment of appreciation where I can.

    Great site.
    Thank you for having me.
    Brad West ~ onomoney

  2. vegasgeek says:

    Hey Brad, thanks for the comment and thanks for stopping in to check out my site. See you at Beer n Blog on Thursday!

  3. Brad West says:

    John Thanks for the response, a response is a crucial part of maintaining a healthy blog, So many times I have commented on blogs and actually asked questions and get no response.

    Much appreciated to be in the company of responsible site owners. Also if I am reading my Quirk search Status you are giving follow links. We do the same on all 4 of our sites. Very cool

    Thanks
    Brad West ~ onomoney

    • vegasgeek says:

      Brad, I subscribe to the idea that a blog is just a way to start a conversation. If you are going to take the time to read my blog and leave a comment, not replying is pretty silly.

      As for the follow links, yes, I use the "do follow" plugin so it makes sure the commenter gets some link love for their website.

  4. Brad West says:

    All I can say to that John is "When you know you are right"
    I feel the same about sharing the Love! Working with people is much more beneficial than not.
    Brad West ~ onomoney

  5. Brad West says:

    All I can say to that John is "When you know you are right"
    I feel the same about sharing the Love! Working with people is much more beneficial than not.
    Brad West ~ onomoney

  6. james says:

    John, i've got two book recco's for you that will change the way you understand non-verbal communication. One by scary science guys, the other by the leading jury consultant in the country. Both are quick reads that'll take you from 'mute' to 'mother tongue' in body language: http://bit.ly/xLIGV & http://bit.ly/bHZIA

  7. JasonMurphy says:

    Hmm… sounds like a poker player wrote this post. I'm just sayin… ;)